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		<title>Solution to &#8216;Unable to Create an Instance of the Java Virtual Machine&#8217; for JDeveloper</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Aug 2009 04:37:24 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Charmaine</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you receive an error message like this when you&#8217;re opening JDeveloper, here&#8217;s the fix for it. Error message: Unable to Create an Instance of the Java Virtual Machine Located at Path ..\..\jdk\jre\bin\client\jvm.dll Solution 1: Copy jvm.dll file in jdk/jre/bin/client and paste to jdk/jre/bin/ojvm. Since ojvm folder has a file of the same name, make a [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=pisceansheart.wordpress.com&amp;blog=2611428&amp;post=118&amp;subd=pisceansheart&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you receive an error message like this when you&#8217;re opening JDeveloper, here&#8217;s the fix for it.</p>
<p><strong><span style="color:#ff0000;">Error message: </span>Unable to Create an Instance of the Java Virtual Machine Located at Path ..\..\jdk\jre\bin\client\jvm.dll</strong></p>
<p><strong><span style="color:#ff0000;">Solution 1:</span> </strong>Copy jvm.dll file in jdk/jre/bin/client and paste to jdk/jre/bin/ojvm. Since ojvm folder has a file of the same name, make a backup of it first before you paste it so that you can revert back just in case it doesn&#8217;t work.</p>
<p><strong><span style="color:#ff0000;">Solution 2:</span> </strong>Go to Control Panel -&gt; System -&gt; Advanced -&gt; Environment Variables and click &#8216;New&#8217; on System variables.</p>
<p>Variable name: JRE_HOME</p>
<p>Variable value: C:\Program Files\Java\jre6</p>
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		<title>How to Get a Good Night&#8217;s Sleep</title>
		<link>http://pisceansheart.wordpress.com/2008/11/02/how-to-get-a-good-nights-sleep/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 02 Nov 2008 01:46:17 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Improved sleep behavior and attitudes do more good than sleeping pills for the treatment of insomnia, experts at a recent National Institutes of Health Consensus Conference agreed, says Daniel Kripke of the University of California, San Diego. The changes Kripke recommends: Do not take sleeping pills. This includes over-the-counter pills and melatonin. Don&#8217;t go to [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=pisceansheart.wordpress.com&amp;blog=2611428&amp;post=113&amp;subd=pisceansheart&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Improved sleep behavior and attitudes do more good than sleeping pills for the treatment of insomnia, experts at a recent National Institutes of Health Consensus Conference agreed, says Daniel Kripke of the University of California, San Diego.</p>
<p>The changes Kripke recommends:</p>
<ul>
<li><strong>Do not take sleeping pills.</strong> This includes over-the-counter pills and melatonin.</li>
<li><strong>Don&#8217;t go to bed until you&#8217;re sleepy.</strong> If you have trouble sleeping, try going to bed later or getting up earlier.</li>
<li><strong>Get up at the same time </strong>every morning, even after a bad night&#8217;s sleep. The next night, you&#8217;ll be sleepy at bedtime.</li>
<li><strong>If you wake up </strong>in the middle of the night and can&#8217;t fall back to sleep, get out of bed and return only when you are sleepy.</li>
<li><strong>Avoid worrying</strong>, watching TV, reading scary books, and doing other things in bed besides sleeping and sex. If you worry, read thrillers or watch TV, do that in a chair that&#8217;s not in the bedroom.</li>
<li><strong>Do not drink or eat </strong>anything caffeinated within six hours of bedtime.</li>
<li><strong>Avoid alcohol</strong>. It&#8217;s relaxing at first but can lead to insomnia when it clears your system.</li>
<li><strong>Spend time outdoors</strong>. People exposed to daylight or bright light therapy sleep better.</li>
</ul>
<p>Source: <a href="http://www.livescience.com/health/060323_sleep_tips.html" target="_blank">LiveScience</a></p>
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		<title>Maybank still suspended</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 30 Sep 2008 04:25:31 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Charmaine</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[KUALA LUMPUR: Trading in the securities of Malayan Banking Bhd (Maybank) was still suspended for the second day on Tuesday pending an announcement on the latest proposal involving PT Bank Internasional Indonesia TKB (BII). Maybank said in a statement to Bursa Malaysia on Tuesday that Bursa Malaysia Securities Bhd had approved its application to suspend [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=pisceansheart.wordpress.com&amp;blog=2611428&amp;post=109&amp;subd=pisceansheart&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>KUALA LUMPUR:</strong> Trading in the securities of Malayan Banking Bhd (Maybank) was still suspended for the second day on Tuesday pending an announcement on the latest proposal involving PT Bank Internasional Indonesia TKB (BII).</p>
<p>Maybank said in a statement to Bursa Malaysia on Tuesday that Bursa Malaysia Securities Bhd had approved its application to suspend the trading of Maybank’s securities from 9am to 5pm.</p>
<p>The suspension was to allow Maybank to announce the latest status on its proposal of the BII acquisition. On Monday, it was suspended from 9am to 5pm.</p>
<p>Source: <a href="http://biz.thestar.com.my/news/story.asp?file=/2008/9/30/business/20080930085605&amp;sec=business" target="_blank">The Star Online</a></p>
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		<title>Malaysia To Cut Gasoline Pump Price By 10 Sen/Liter</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 24 Sep 2008 08:21:04 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Charmaine</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[By Serina Joon, Dow Jones Newswires KUALA LUMPUR (Dow Jones) &#8211; Malaysia is expected to cut the price of gasoline at the pump by another 10 sen, the New Straits Times reported Wednesday, citing an unnamed source. The announcement is expected to be made later today, the report said. Government officials are scheduled to meet [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=pisceansheart.wordpress.com&amp;blog=2611428&amp;post=105&amp;subd=pisceansheart&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><span>By Serina Joon, Dow Jones Newswires</span></p>
<p><span><strong>KUALA LUMPUR (Dow Jones)</strong> &#8211; Malaysia is expected to cut the price of gasoline  at the pump by another 10 sen, the New Straits Times reported Wednesday, citing  an unnamed source. </span></p>
<p><span>The announcement is expected to be made later today, the report said. </span></p>
<p><span>Government officials are scheduled to meet Wednesday to discuss the monthly  review of retail fuel prices in a Cabinet meeting, according to an earlier news  report. </span></p>
<p><span>On Aug. 22, the pump price of gasoline was slashed to MYR2.55 from MYR2.70 a  liter and diesel to MYR2.50 from MYR2.58 a liter. </span></p>
<p><span>The government had announced Aug. 1 that pump prices would be adjusted  monthly according to global crude oil prices. </span></p>
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		<title>Raja Petra to be detained 2yrs under ISA</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Sep 2008 10:43:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Charmaine</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[By M. MAGESWARI KUALA LUMPUR: Malaysia Today editor Raja Petra Kamarudin was served with an order Monday night that would see him detained in Kamunting for two years under the Internal Security Act (ISA). Raja Petra will be held without trial under Section 8(1) of the ISA, reporters were told by his lawyers, who were [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=pisceansheart.wordpress.com&amp;blog=2611428&amp;post=103&amp;subd=pisceansheart&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>By M. MAGESWARI</p>
<p><strong>KUALA LUMPUR:</strong> <em>Malaysia Today</em> editor <a href="http://archives.thestar.com.my/last365days/default.aspx?query=raja+petra" target="_blank">Raja Petra Kamarudin</a> was served with an order Monday night that would see him detained in Kamunting for two years under the Internal Security Act (ISA).</p>
<p>Raja Petra will be held without trial under Section 8(1) of the ISA, reporters were told by his lawyers, who were at the High Court hear to argue their habeas corpus application on Tuesday. The detention order was signed by Home Minister Datuk Seri Syed Hamid Albar on Monday night.</p>
<p>On Tuesday, DPP Abdul Wahab Mohamad raised a preliminary objection over the blogger’s habeas corpus application saying that Raja Petra’s detention by the police under the Section 73(1) of the same Act has become academic.</p>
<p>DPP Abdul Wahab confirmed that he had been informed Tuesday morning of Raja Petra’s detention under the minister’s order which was effective Monday.</p>
<p>“The applicant is no longer detained under Section 73 (1) of the Act and we strongly contend that all the issues pertaining to the said detention have now become academic since the detention order under Section 8(1) of the Act came into effect,” he said.</p>
<p>DPP Abdul Wahab said the police no longer have authority on the applicant and that the burden has shifted to the Home Minister.</p>
<p>“Thus, any illegality in the prior arrest and detention cannot be the subject matter of inquiry. Any previous issues which transpired before the issuance of the detention order cannot be subject to judicial inquiry.</p>
<p>“I seek your indulgence to strike out the application,” he submitted before High Court judge Suraya Othman when the case was mentioned Tuesday.</p>
<p>Raja Petra had filed a habeas corpus application on Sept 16 to get a court order for his release. The blogger named the Inspector-General of Police as the respondent in the application.</p>
<p>In a supporting document affirmed by Raja Petra’s wife, Mable @ Marina Lee Abdullah said she believed that Raja Petra was detained under ISA on Sept 12 to silence him as well as to extract information concerning his sources.</p>
<p>His lead counsel Malik Imtiaz Sarwar argued Tuesday that the minister’s action was only to defeat the wrongful detention application by his client and it was unacceptable.</p>
<p>Malik argued that Raja Petra’s detention by the police under Section 73(1) of the same Act was without basis, unconstitutional and in bad faith.</p>
<p>He submitted that the minister’s order was inter-related with the detention order by the police and that the applicant could still challenge the validity of the said order. “It is a very urgent matter and there is no evidence to suggest that he (Raja Petra) is a threat to national security. He just put in his comments,” he said.</p>
<p>Justice Suraya asked both parties to file in further written submissions before hearing the matter again on Oct 28.</p>
<p>Speaking to reporters later, Malik said he would file another application for his client under Section 8 of the Act.</p>
<p>Earlier, Raja Petra’s wife Marina and Seputeh MP Teresa Kok were spotted chatting with former de facto Law Minister Senator Datuk Zaid Ibrahim as they sat at the public gallery.</p>
<p>Source: <a href="http://www.thestar.com.my/news/story.asp?file=/2008/9/23/nation/20080923111517&amp;sec=nation" target="_blank">The Star Online</a></p>
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		<title>China goods ban widens</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 23 Sep 2008 03:09:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Reports by ROYCE CHEAH, LESTER KONG and CHEOK LI PENG PETALING JAYA: The Government has widened its ban on dairy products imported from China to include confectionery which contain milk, chocolate (including white chocolate) and other food which contain milk. The decision was based on the latest information received from Singapore’s Agri-Food and Veterinary Authority [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=pisceansheart.wordpress.com&amp;blog=2611428&amp;post=100&amp;subd=pisceansheart&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Reports by ROYCE CHEAH, LESTER KONG and CHEOK LI PENG</p>
<p><strong>PETALING JAYA:</strong> The Government has widened its ban on dairy products imported from China to include confectionery which contain milk, chocolate (including white chocolate) and other food which contain milk.</p>
<p>The decision was based on the latest information received from Singapore’s Agri-Food and Veterinary Authority (AVA) which found melamine in “White Rabbit Creamy Candy”, the Health Ministry said in a statement.</p>
<p>The ministry’s food quality and safety department director Noraini Mohd Othman said the widened ban would include “White Rabbit Creamy Candy” and flour-based confections like biscuits.</p>
<p>“The ministry will seize such products found in the local market,” she said.</p>
<p>Noraini said Malaysia already had an existing ban on any milk or milk powder from China, adding that although the country had imported dairy products from China, the milk in these goods was sourced from Australia and New Zealand.</p>
<p>“As a preventive measure, the ministry has also imposed a Level 6 or automatic rejection on all imported baby milk powder, milk and dairy products via the Food Safety Information System.”</p>
<p>Noraini advised consumers to be aware of the types of items which have been banned and to dispose of any existing goods they might already have.</p>
<p>“Retailers are also advised to report to the nearest state health department or office if such products are sold on their premises,” she said, adding that importers and agents have to stop distributing such products and immediately contact her department.</p>
<p>Noraini said the ministry would also take food samples from across the country to check for the presence of melamine, adding that if it were detected, those involved in the distribution chain could be fined up to RM100,000 or jailed a maximum of 10 years, or both.</p>
<p>Consumers can contact the ministry at 03-8883-3503 for more information.</p>
<p>On Friday, Singapore’s AVA suspended the import of all milk and milk products from China and instructed retailers and importers to recall such products.</p>
<p>Three products were found to contain melamine &#8211; “White Rabbit Creamy Candy”, “Yili Brand Choice Dairy Fruit Bar Yogurt” and “Dutch Lady” strawberry-flavoured milk.</p>
<p>Source: <a href="http://thestar.com.my/news/story.asp?file=/2008/9/23/nation/2094296&amp;sec=nation" target="_blank">The Star Online</a></p>
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		<title>Fresh hopes push KLCI above 1,000</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Sep 2008 08:36:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[By JOSEPH CHIN KUALA LUMPUR: Fresh hopes of the US government’s move to implement a plan to strengthen the US financial market gave some hope to US and Asian markets while the KL Composite Index crossed the 1,000-mark easily on bargain hunting. At 9.08am, the KLCI was up 11.49 points to 1,003.15. Turnover was 23.83 [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=pisceansheart.wordpress.com&amp;blog=2611428&amp;post=97&amp;subd=pisceansheart&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>By JOSEPH CHIN</p>
<p><strong>KUALA LUMPUR:</strong> Fresh hopes of the US government’s move to implement a plan to strengthen the US financial market gave some hope to US and Asian markets while the KL Composite Index crossed the 1,000-mark easily on bargain hunting.</p>
<p>At 9.08am, the KLCI was up 11.49 points to 1,003.15. Turnover was 23.83 million shares valued at RM39mil. There were 114 gainers, 12 losers and 55 counters unchanged.</p>
<p>Asian markets also rose, with Japan’s Nikkei 225 up 300 points or 2.61% to 11,789.35, Singapore’s Straits Times Index rallied 3.6% to 2,506.22 while South Korea’s Kospi gained 3.62% to 1,442.78.</p>
<p>In US, stocks rallied after the US government reassured worried investors that it would draw up a “permanent” plan to shore up financial markets.</p>
<p>US regulators and pension funds also implemented measures to curb bents against banks and brokerages.</p>
<p>However, OSK Investment Research said with the global economy slowing, the financial markets in turmoil and protracted political uncertainties, the short term outlook for the KLCI was decidedly bearish.</p>
<div class="story_image center" style="width:414px;"><img src="http://biz.thestar.com.my/archives/2008/9/19/business/p1-stockpic.JPG" alt="" width="400" height="239" /> <span class="caption">An investor reacts as he monitors the share index at a private stock market gallery in Kuala Lumpur on Thursday. &#8211; AFP</span></div>
<p>“We advise investors to stay with defensive stocks for now and wait for the selling pressure to abate, which would be signalled by a decline in trading volume before re-entering value stocks,” it said.</p>
<p>Its year-end KLCI target of 1,128 factors in growing political certainty and a rebound in commodity prices towards year-end.</p>
<p>“Nonetheless, any upside is likely to be capped until 2Q2009 when the economy gradually recovers,” it said.</p>
<p>BCHB was the top gainer, up 35 sen to RM7.45, MISC-Foreign gained 30 sen to RM8.45, Tanjong and YTL added 20 sen each to RM12.60 and RM5.70.</p>
<p>Public Bank, Public Bank foreign and Maybank gained 15 sen each to RM9.80, RM9.90 and RM7.05 respectively.</p>
<p>Among the major losers were Tanjong Offshore rights shares (TgOffs-OR) which fell 16 sen to 20 sen.</p>
<p>Hartalega lost 20 sen to RM1.30 but with only 100 shares done while Kossan eased 10 sen to RM2.25 and Kulim five sen to RM5.35.</p>
<p>Source: <a href="http://biz.thestar.com.my/news/story.asp?file=/2008/9/19/business/20080919091747&amp;sec=business" target="_blank">The Star Online</a></p>
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		<title>10 Tips for Approaching Single Women</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Sep 2008 05:15:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[By David Wygant What do you do when you see a woman you are attracted to? Do you run and hide? Do you use some canned line that you read on the Internet? Do you stand there in fear trying to think of the right thing to say? What is the right thing to do? [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=pisceansheart.wordpress.com&amp;blog=2611428&amp;post=92&amp;subd=pisceansheart&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em class="author">By <a href="http://dating.personals.yahoo.com/singles/datingtips/594/10-tips-for-approaching-women-with-confidence#author_bio">David Wygant</a></em></p>
<p>What do you do when you see a woman you are attracted to?</p>
<p>Do you run and hide?</p>
<p>Do you use some canned line that you read on the Internet?</p>
<p>Do you stand there in fear trying to think of the right thing to say?</p>
<p>What is the right thing to do?</p>
<p>When approaching a woman, most guys make the mistake of thinking too much about what to say. They believe there&#8217;s one magic line that will work in all situations. They rehearse this magic line, and when they deliver it, they hope the woman will become instantly attracted to them.<br />
Unfortunately, rarely does this approach work &#8212; because most of what you say is irrelevant. To catch a woman&#8217;s attention, it is all about the confidence you display when approaching her.<br />
Here are 10 surefire ways to intrigue her every time:</p>
<p><strong>1. Observe something</strong><br />
Make a comment about something you observe in the environment. This is especially effective at the grocery store. For example, if she is ordering a turkey sandwich, ask her if the turkey is good here.<br />
Make your comment immediate to the situation and it will seem perfectly natural. No matter where you are, there is always something interesting to comment on.</p>
<p><strong>2. Smile</strong><br />
This shows her that you are friendly and confident. A genuine smile not only feels good to you, but will put her at ease while creating openness in the interaction &#8212; a requirement for building rapport.</p>
<p><strong>3. Do not hesitate</strong><br />
If you hesitate in your approach, this tells her that you are not feeling confident &#8212; an immediate turn-off. When you see her, walk over to her within a short period of time (the three-second rule). Show her you are a man who knows what he wants and goes after it.</p>
<p><strong>4. Positive body language</strong><br />
If you approach hunched over with your head down, you are sending negative information about yourself, which makes you dead in the water before you begin. Stand up straight, with shoulders back and chest out, and use a firm yet relaxed walk.</p>
<p><strong>5. Not too fast</strong><br />
If you walk over too fast, you could likely trigger her internal alarm. A calm, casual approach is usually the best way to make her feel at ease with you.</p>
<p><strong>6. Keep eye contact</strong><br />
Never be the first to break eye contact when you approach. If you do, this sends the message that you are not feeling good about approaching. When you use strong eye contact, she will feel more drawn to you. With practice, you can master this.</p>
<p><strong>7. Listen up</strong><br />
Make sure you pay careful attention to what she says. Do not have your response pre-thought out. Women love a man who pays attention to the details of what she says. If you start throwing out random words, she will lose interest fast.</p>
<p><strong>8. Do not fidget</strong><br />
Fidgeting after you approach is distracting and shows you are uncomfortable. If you communicate that you are uncomfortable, she will feel uncomfortable, too, and will close up. Practice being aware of your movements. Pay attention to those movements, or lack of movements, that communicate comfort and confidence.</p>
<p><strong>9. Lighten your tone of voice</strong><br />
The tone of your voice is a very powerful tool. Approaching her in a light and playful tone is one of the best ways to start. You could also begin in a serious tone, accusing her of something like &#8220;I hope you saved some turkey for me,&#8221; followed by a quick smile to let her know you are joking. Practice playing with your vocal tone with your friends &#8212; notice the different reactions you get when you say the exact same thing using varied tones and fluctuations.</p>
<p><strong>10. Lean away from her</strong><br />
A man who leans in too far when he talks often makes a woman feel crowded. A better approach is to lean away from her slightly. This lets her know that you respect her space, boundaries, and are comfortable with yourself.</p>
<p>The key to making these tips work for you is putting them into practice! Practice these tips and see the reaction you get. When you put them all together, you will be surprised at their power.</p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Aug 2008 09:08:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This error occurs when you edit a workbench resource outside of Eclipse. To fix this problem, right click the project or edited resource and select &#8220;Refresh&#8221;. If you edit outside of Eclipse a lot, you can enable auto-refresh by going to Window-&#62;Preferences menu, then in the Preferences dialog box, select General-&#62;Workspace. Check the &#8220;Refresh automatically&#8221; [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=pisceansheart.wordpress.com&amp;blog=2611428&amp;post=88&amp;subd=pisceansheart&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align:justify;">This error occurs when you edit a workbench resource outside of Eclipse.<br />
To fix this problem, right click the project or edited resource and select &#8220;Refresh&#8221;.<br />
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		<title>Golden Rules for Finding Your Life Partner</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Aug 2008 10:02:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[by Dov Heller, MA When it comes to making the decision about choosing a life partner, no one wants to make a mistake. Yet, with a divorce rate of close to 50%, it appears that many are making serious mistakes in their approach to finding Mr./Miss. Right! If you ask most couples who are engaged [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=pisceansheart.wordpress.com&amp;blog=2611428&amp;post=86&amp;subd=pisceansheart&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="text-align:justify;">by Dov Heller, MA</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">When it comes to making the decision about choosing a life partner, no one wants to make a mistake. Yet, with a divorce rate of close to 50%, it appears that many are making serious mistakes in their approach to finding Mr./Miss. Right!</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">If you ask most couples who are engaged why they&#8217;re getting married, they&#8217;ll say: &#8220;We&#8217;re in love&#8221;; I believe this is the ..1 mistake people make when they date. Choosing a life partner should never be based on love. Though this may sound &#8220;not politically correct&#8221;, there&#8217;s a profound truth here.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Love is not the basis for getting married. Rather, love is the result of a good marriage. When the other ingredients are right, then the love will come. Let me say it again: &#8220;You can&#8217;t build a lifetime relationship on love alone&#8221;; You need a lot more!!!</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Here are five questions you must ask yourself if you&#8217;re serious about finding and keeping a life partner.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;"><strong>QUESTION 1: Do we share a common life purpose?</strong></p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Why is this so important? Let me put it this way: If you&#8217;re married for 20 or 30 years, that&#8217;s a long time to live with someone. What do you plan to do with each other all that time? Travel, eat and jog together? You need to share something deeper and more meaningful. You need a common life purpose.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Two things can happen in a marriage:</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">(1) You can grow together, or</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">(2) You can grow apart.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">50% of the people out there are growing apart.<br />
To make a marriage work, you need to know what you want out of life!</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Bottom line; marry someone who wants the same thing.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;"><strong>QUESTION 2: Do I feel safe expressing my feelings and thoughts with this person?</strong></p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">This question goes to the core of the quality of your relationship. Feeling safe means you can communicate openly with this person. The basis of having good communication is trust &#8211; i.e. trust that I won&#8217;t get &#8220;punished&#8221;; or hurt for expressing my honest thoughts and feelings. A colleague of mine defines an abusive person as someone with whom you feel afraid to express your thoughts and feelings. Be honest with yourself on this one. Make sure you feel emotionally safe with the person you plan to marry.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;"><strong>QUESTION 3: Is he/she a mensch?</strong></p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">A mensch is someone who is a refined and sensitive person. How can you test? Here are some suggestions. Do they work on personal growth on a regular basis? Are they serious about improving themselves? A teacher of mine defines a good person as &#8220;someone who is always striving to be good and do the right &#8220;;. So ask about your significant other: What do they do with their time? Is this person materialistic? Usually a materialistic person is not someone whose top priority is character refinement.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">There are essentially two types of people in the world:</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">(1) People who are dedicated to personal growth and</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">(2) People who are dedicated to seeking comfort.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Someone whose goal in life is to be comfortable will put personal comfort ahead of doing the right thing. You need to know that before walking down the aisle.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;"><strong>QUESTION 4: How does he/she treat other people? </strong></p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The one most important thing that makes any relationship work is the ability to give. By giving, we mean the ability to give another person pleasure.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Ask: Is this someone who enjoys giving pleasure to others or are they wrapped up in themselves and self- absorbed?<br />
To measure this, think about the following: How do they treat people whom they do not have to be nice to, such as waiters, bus boys, taxi drivers, etc.. How do they treat their parents and siblings? Do they have gratitude and appreciation?<br />
If they don&#8217;t have gratitude for the people who have given them everything; can you do nearly as much for them? You can be sure that someone who treats others poorly, will eventually treat you poorly as well.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;"><strong>QUESTION 5: Is there anything I&#8217;m hoping to change about this person after we&#8217;re married?</strong></p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Too many people make the mistake of marrying someone with the intention of trying to &#8220;improve&#8221;; them after they&#8217;re married. As a colleague of mine puts it: &#8220;You can probably expect someone to change after marriage for the worse&#8221; If you cannot fully accept this person the way they are now, then you are not ready to marry them.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">In conclusion, dating doesn&#8217;t have to be difficult and treacherous. The key is to try leading a little more with your head and less with your heart. It pays to be as objective as possible when you are dating; to be sure to ask questions that will help you get to the key issues. Falling in love is a great feeling, but when you wake up with a ring on your finger, you don&#8217;t want to find yourself trouble because you didn&#8217;t do your homework.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Another perspective&#8230;</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">There are some people in your life that need to be loved from a distance.. It&#8217;s amazing what you can accomplish when you let go of or at least minimize your time with draining, negative, incompatible, not-going anywhere relationships. Observe the relationships around you.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Pay attention&#8230;Which ones lift and which ones lean?</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Which ones encourage and which ones discourage?</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Which ones are on a path of growth uphill and which ones are going downhill?</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">When you leave certain people do you feel better or feel worse?</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Which ones always have drama or don&#8217;t really understand, know, or appreciate you?</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">The more you seek quality, respect, growth, peace of mind, love and truth around you&#8230;the easier it will become for you to decide who gets to sit in the front row and who should be moved to the balcony of your life.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">An African proverb states, &#8220;Before you get married, keep both eyes open, and after you marry, close one eye&#8221;; Before you get involved and make a commitment to someone, don&#8217;t let lust, desperation, immaturity, ignorance, pressure from others or a low self-esteem make you blind to warning signs. Keep your eyes open, and don&#8217;t fool yourself that you can change someone or that what you see as faults aren&#8217;t really that<br />
important.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Do you bring out the best in each other?</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Do you compliment and compromise with each other, or do you compete, compare and control?</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">What do you bring to the relationship?</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Do you bring past relationships, past hurt, past mistrust, past pain?</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">You can&#8217;t take someone to the altar to alter them. You can&#8217;t make someone love you or make someone stay.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">If you develop self-esteem, spiritual discernment, and &#8220;a life&#8221;; you won&#8217;t find yourself making someone else responsible for your happiness or responsible for your pain. Seeking status, sex, and security are the wrong reasons to be in a relationship.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">WHAT KEEPS A RELATIONSHIP STRONG IS:</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">1. TRUST</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">2. COMMUNICATION</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">3. INTIMACY</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">4. A SENSE OF HUMOR</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">5. SHARING TASKS</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">6. SOME GETAWAY TIME WITHOUT BUSINESS OR CHILDREN</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">7. DAILY EXCHANGES (meal, shared activity, hug, call, touch, notes, etc.)</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">8. SHARING COMMON GOALS AND INTERESTS</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">9. GIVING EACH OTHER SPACE TO GROW WITHOUT FEELING INSECURE</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">10. GIVING EACH OTHER A SENSE OF BELONGING AND ASSURANCES OF COMMITMENT</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">If these qualities are missing, the relationship will erode as resentment withdrawal, abuse, neglect, and dishonesty; and pain will replace.</p>
<p style="text-align:justify;">Happy Searching&#8230; <img src='http://s0.wp.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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